Intimacy in Business – driving collaboration, innovation, trust and success

by Gisela Pink:

In business, intimacy might sound like a misplaced word—but what if it’s the missing
ingredient? I’m not talking about romantic closeness; I’m talking about human
connection.

Consider this: intimacy is THE game-changer. I’m talking about creating deep,
meaningful connections that drive collaboration, innovation, trust and mutual success.

The Power of Trust and Authenticity

Intimacy in business starts with trust—real trust, the kind that goes beyond contracts
and handshakes. It’s about creating an environment where people feel safe enough to
speak openly, take risks, and bring their whole selves to the table. When trust is there,
people are more likely to share bold ideas, challenge the status quo, collaborate
effectively and work together without fear of judgment.

I don’t mean exchanging pleasantries: it’s about engaging in honest, sometimes raw
conversations that foster true understanding. It begins with asking, “What do you really
need?” and “How can I be of service?” Recognising that we’re all in service of each
other, regardless of our roles, transforms business dynamics. We are all on the same
boat.

Let me ask you this: Have you ever worked in a place where you felt like just another cog
in the machine? Where every meeting felt robotic, every interaction surface-level?
Where you just had to pretend to fit in? Now, compare that to a space where you felt
truly seen, gotten and valued—where your voice mattered, where leaders actually
listened. That’s the difference business intimacy makes.

True intimacy in business demands a detailed knowledge and deep understanding of
what drives each relationship. It’s about truly ‘getting’ your peers and colleagues. Being
real, being authentic, and showing your true self. This kind of raw honesty builds
stronger, more resilient relationships where everyone feels valued and understood.

Building Strong Alliances

With trust and authenticity at the core, business relationships transform into powerful
alliances. We, humans, aren’t just transactions; we’re partners who can share mutual
respect and common goals. We want to feel connected. When everyone feels safe and
understood, innovation and effective problem-solving naturally follow.

Have you noticed that when people feel connected and respected, they are more willing
to share their best thoughts and insights? This open exchange leads to breakthroughs
and drives success in ways that a less connected environment simply can’t.

I recently had to facilitate a workshop on ‘Psychological Safety at Work’ for a large
manufacturing company. As I was preparing the content for my presentation, I couldn’t
stop thinking about all the ideas, discoveries, and meaningful actions that might have not
been there without people’s voices being heard, safe to show up. And, obviously, that
also prompt the thought of how many voices have been silenced because of a culture of
egos and biases…

When leaders invest in authentic, safe, intimate communication, it pays off—not just in
numbers, but in the lasting relationships and trust that fuel long-term success. With
customers. With suppliers. With communities.

Being people-centric in an age of advanced technology that challenges our own humanity,
is no longer optional. Bringing empathy, integrity and trust to the business, is no longer
an option. Our humanity depends on it. The human side of leadership is what will set
great companies apart.

So here’s my invitation: What if you led with intimacy? If your next meeting was
grounded in trust, not fear? Start small. Ask a better question. Engage everybody. Listen
longer. Be real.

Intimacy—yes, intimacy—is not just a good to have; it’s a must.

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Gisela Bajer-Pink, MBA is an inspirational speaker, People & Strategy Consultant, Transformational Coach & Mentor, Non-Exec Director, #WeLeadComms honoree and Strategic Columnist. If you’d like to book a call with Gisela, visit: https://calendly.com/gisela-qlaq/discovery-call-with-gisela-bajer-pink 

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